In fact, the mediocre parents who are incompetent in your eyes have long given their value to their children.

When people are young, parents are the children's heaven, earth, roots and soil. Children absorb and divide their growth day by day and gradually grow. Later, the children grew up, and their branches scattered, forming a forest, but those children who cannot get along well with their parents always feel uncomfortable, because the roots are barren and the branches and leaves are naturally not lush.

This situation is also the thing that every parent is most worried about. You can know one or two things from the "Stop the Father-son Relationship" code that the most popular in local dramas is. The old father and his young son, when his son was about to marry into a wealthy daughter, and after flying Huang Tengda, he began to feel dismissed his mediocre parents who had no vision.

The son said to his father in a hurry: "My achievements today are all based on my own efforts. What are your abilities?" The father could only lower his head in shame, and interrogated himself for nothing. Such a self-righteous son ignored the valueless parents he mentioned, and had already given all the value to his children. Parents who were not capable of helping them grow up without any need for food and clothing.

When thinking about it simply, the global population is unlimited, and the number of people and middle-level people must be far more than that of rich people. Most people do ordinary jobs, but they do not love children less than those of rich people. When parents work hard to pull their children to grow up, they are most afraid of hearing children complain about their misconduct.

In many families, when their parents are old, they can't walk or hear clearly, some children begin to show impatient attitude. When parents are in front of their children, they must be careful in every move, as if they are tired. This is a natural rule. One day people will age. Your children see how you treat aging parents.

Liu Yong once said: "People who leave the well behind the country must know that the direction of the well behind the old town can determine their position." Although this sentence is about telling him that he has allowed the daughters who live abroad to learn Chinese well since he was a child, it is the same for the feelings of thanks to parents, which is to determine their own origins, their roots, and their parents!

Apart from not blamed parents for their incompetence in their careers, complained about their miserable actions, and did not mind abandoning their parents' illness and asking for care for them. We should also pay attention to the attitude of speaking. What happens in Chinese society is that they are so stingy. They are obviously concerned about their parents, but they speak very hard and their mouths are also very rude. The old man doesn't say anything after hearing it, but in fact they are very sad.

Therefore, Confucius said that the highest level of filial piety is "difficult color", which is revealed from the heart to people and colors, which seems to be more difficult in modern society! In addition to respect and filial piety gradually becoming weak, father and son quarrels are often revealed, and the tragedy of the son who kills his father. There are a variety of ways to be filial to parents. Start with the simplest and most often "breaking" one: be more patient and speak well with your parents.