"Housemaster" has a happy marriage after 7 years of marriage! Experts reveal 3 rules for happy marriage

Modern society emphasizes equality between men and women, and there are many people who will give up husbands and share their family affairs. But if the heroine is the heroine outside, can it be accepted? Every marriage has its own equation of happiness. Only two people understand how to get along with each other, and there is no need to care about other people's opinions. There are many friends with large sizes. In addition to the male protagonist, the wife and children are all in the job, and the double-paid families are even more common, including friends of the "family masters and husbands".

Do you have a "home husband"?

Online development has changed the traditional work style (such as YouTuber, community operation). In addition, due to the impact of the epidemic in recent years, people are becoming more and more accustomed to working from home. If SOHO at home is enough to support daily expenses, why not? And the "home husband" also began to appear around.

"Housemaster" is not a job or a job. In addition to taking over all matters at home, including caring for children, many of them also work from home and continue to make payments. A "family husband" recently published a PO article on the Dcard marriage version, sharing his own way of marriage with his wife, which attracted the attention of netizens.

After 12 years of staying together, still as plastic as painted

The original PO said that he was 35 years old, and had two children with his wife for seven years. He had a very good relationship with his wife. He decided to get married after five years of dating in the institute. "Until now, my friends are super envious and puzzled. How did we have the ability to stay together for 12 years or as plastic as painted?"

"I miss that year... After the end of the hot period, we entered society from students, because the layers of the real, psychological and living circles have also been transformed. When I was exhausted physically and mentally, I doubted myself and the other party’s love, I once felt that it was fading and could not continue. At that time, the belief that both of us was: Can I still find someone who can replace her (him)? "

It was not that I had no trouble all the way, and I had been dating for so long, in addition to love, fit and familiarity, the two of us were more of "the cost of time spent"; it was not that who made a huge mistake. If you shouted to stop now, it was simply a super unworthy and wasteful behavior.

He said that of course it does not mean that no matter what, it is not necessary to stop shouting, but the premise is that "there are no serious problems in both sides". If you just shouting for a stop because of the reason of being weak and being embarrassed, it would be really not worth it. "But if there are very serious and serious problems such as cheating or not, then you will escape quickly!"

After careful thinking, we will find that we will not be able to spend more time re-engaging and accepting a new object.

The biggest change after marriage is "children"

After having a stable emotional foundation, the original PO believed that there would be no major changes after marriage, and the biggest change should be "having children"! "Because my work relationship is mainly about working at home and having relatively free time. I basically take care of all the housework at home."

"Because I saw my wife having a 10-month fertility, getting up again and again at night, and having a suffocating and working hard for our children in the room, I vowed to cherish this woman who is willing to spend all her youth and beauty following me." (Note: Other people's husbands will never disappoint!)

Why are model husbands not respectful?

After marriage, some friends and even family members have asked about the original PO, why did they let their wives go out to work? Then I took a child at home. Isn’t it so reverent and don’t worry about my wife having a strong position at home?

The original PO thought, "My wife is a stronger party in our relationship. I don't care at all because I know we love each other. I used to like a lyric in this drama: "A family must have a sing." sing, others are helping him accompany him. '

For the harmony of family and relationships, the original PO is very willing to accompaniment for his wife. "And my wife's friends admire her so much that they are thrilled. He said that I am a model husband, why are you so unrespectful (laughs)!"

Three Rules of Marriage Happiness

The original PO finally shared the three major ways to maintain marriage and relationship with your wife, "I wish you all a happy and beautiful marriage! Love your partner well, and spend your days with your heart, and you won't regret it!" (Editor: Husbands are not picking it up quickly)

The holiday ceremony of "Right One" is a ritual and shocking:

Wife is always a little girl. Birthday, lover's day, and anniversary are definitely something you have to go through. It may not be as good as it is. Sometimes, a card, a bouquet of roses, and a cake made by yourself can make your wife happy for a long time. Occasionally, she would secretly wait for her to get off work or do some small malicious plays, which is also a very good way to increase her feelings.

"Guardian II" Two-person time:

Regularly, you must open your family and open your children (heat~) After two people's time, there are really too many complicated things in life after marriage, but we will arrange at least two-person appointments a month (even if my wife is busy, she will try to spare time), and the children will ask their family or good friends to help and take care of them. This method is really praiseworthy, don't be overwhelmed by life!

"Shuo Wu Three" chat:

Don't look at it, it seems very simple, I mean "real chat"! It's not about getting a report-style conversation like going to the company, working overtime today, and having a child sick, but about really heart-to-heart talk. My wife is usually busy at work, so we will chat before going to bed, talking about what my wife is busy with at work recently, and what happened to her child at school recently. This way, the two people can continue to have intersections in life..

Netizen: Do I feel relaxed when I have a husband?

After reading the explosive post of the original PO, the topic was still "Men! Please cherish your wife", which made the female netizens explode: "Sure enough, they are other people's husbands..., I haven't given me a gift for you for a while," "I'm done, I don't have the sensation and super elegant style in the room. He thought it was very relaxed?", "So there are really such boys, and I think they are all fantasies...", " I want to show this article to my husband! " (The editor also translated it to my husband)

Most male netizens say sour words: "Please less of this article, my girlfriend will read it!", "Is this girl a fight? You have to say it in the cross-dressing process!", but some netizens also jumped out and said justice: "It's not only men who should cherish their wives, but women should also cherish their husbands. They know how to cherish and be grateful to each other and leave for a long time."

What do you think? Welcome to share with us your emotional management methods with teammates, and also like to complain about your husband!

Responsible editor: Chen Yaomei