Is marriage a tomb of love? Many women go to work for their families after marriage, and focus on taking their children as family hosts at home. But she was dismissed by her husband because she had no production capacity. She had to live on her face. If she wanted to buy something, she was scolded. "People who were not working had no qualifications to spend money!"
Is it too much to tell my wife that she has no qualifications to spend money? A netizen posted on Dcard that he and his wife had a son. After the child was born, his wife became a "family host" at home in order to take the child to work. Recently, I received a gift from a friend. My wife wanted to go out to buy gifts for a return. The original po said that she was very tired and didn't want to start a car. My wife said it was okay and she could take a scheduled car to buy it.I didn't know which nerve was broken at the moment, and told her that "I didn't spend money when I was working and I was not qualified!" My wife was unhappy after hearing this and since then she didn't talk to herself. Originally, I felt that I had not said anything wrong and posted a message to everyone for explanation. Unexpectedly, as soon as this post was exposed, it caused a large number of netizens to criticize, with 1,361 comments left.
It's not great to have income The family host is 24 hours a day without vacation. Many netizens have banned, "Your wife is so sad. You can't have any other private expenses except taking a child. It's worse than having a child." "It's so unlucky to have a baby with you. What is it called unqualified money? It's hard to blame Taiwanese girls for not wanting to have children. Do you have to kneel down and ask you for money?" "Where is she not working? You know, you want to hire a 24-hour house to get to the mansion. Baobao's nanny should be at least 70,000 in Taipei City! "Your job is a 24-hour wheel system, your wife is a family host, and you have no rest all day. Please find out. My wife has been a family host for 15 years. One day, I don't think I am more outstanding because of my own money and raising my family. You will lose all the faces of our family men!" "Your behavior is the most abusive man for girls, and you will make money by yourself. ? Girls are not capable of making money. They just leave the job because of having your child. Otherwise, she can be a little princess at home. " "It's so frustrating to marry you. It's recommended to divorce directly, and it's not worth it for her to meet someone like you."Some netizens said enthusiastically, "So the family host "doesn't have any reports" to take care of you jointly and produce half-birth people from her body? You care, she Taking care of your family, you have no great income. She caring for your family can be considered a 24-hour worker (unless you really share your family's work when you go home). She doesn't even have a holiday. Instead, do you have any money for her private expenses besides household use? If not, you should feel awesome. You said this, it's her fault, she is marrying someone who doesn't cherish her."
As a netizen also rationally analyzed, "First of all, I need to establish your concept. You must know that marriage is not a single responsibility, nor is it a child. All the responsibility is that you two must bear together, such as money, family affairs, children, etc. Of course, the form does not necessarily mean the same. How to distribute it depends on your own different family, just be good for you to communicate well. It seems You are the pillar of economics in your distribution and your wife is a guru. One is investing in one's money and the other is working hard. Remember that no one is more harmful than the other. "The money is not more harmful than making money! ", it's just that money can reflect your value, so you think your wife is not worth it, but is it really not? Children are well-behaved, clean at home, and have food to eat when you go home every day. These are not your wife. Is it worth it? Do you think these are not worth it? Then do you ask the nanny tea restaurant to pay? These results are the value of your wife's handling. Can you not be paid for your salary?
If you still don't agree, just think from a different perspective. Can you do your child's family work? Can you cook, take care of freshmen, and know how to teach? If you don't know, you will not be qualified to Wife, she doesn't understand your job and she is not qualified to cure you, so she is equal and not who is more harmful. Most of the conflicts come from not understanding the thinking of changing positions. "
Some netizens believe that money should not be measured in marriage, and think that "whether to calculate the salary of marriage? Marriage and having children is a division of labor, and not everything can be quantified with money."
Foreign media reported that a jurisprudence in the Argentine Civil Court on the 10th caused a dispute. A 70-year-old woman sued her ex-husband and asked him to pay for the family he had done in the past 27 years. The court finally ruled that the ex-husband would pay pesos (about NT$5.74 million), which was the judgment of the highest compensation amount of the civil court.
After an American husband calculated his wife's salary, including being a babysitter, cooking, washing and home, finance and purchasing, etc. He found that if converted into labor, his wife would receive at least US$74,000 (about NT$2.24 million) a year, which made him feel moved: "In fact, I can't afford my wife at all!"